hey girl, this wont' help, but I'prob would' lost it too if I knew H saw the xow, though I have been good at not saying the other angry stuff you said even as it is fighting to come out and IS at the tip of my tongue.
You know better hon, I hope that's the last time you say it. When those ugly thoughts come to your head how about you actually tell him in plain english "I am very hurt and I don't feel well right now, I feel insecure because xyz" and take a 5. You'll get better results that way.
I think men come equiped w/the phrase "are you STILL angry?" ush! I get it from my H too, men do move on quickly when we have one of our hissy fits. And any crying in my part means manipulation in my H's book,not a sign that I'm hurt, i have to actually spell it out for him
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
