thank you every one for the advice yesterday. I am going nuts with this MLC stuff. To clarify, I found out that my husband was having a pa with his secretary 6 weeks ago. I kicked him out of the house. He said that he no longer has feelings for me, and he loved her. We did everything together, including bible study. He responded with anger when I kicked him out but has settled down somewhat. I filed for divorce and we already had our first court hearing. He seems to be in the Depression/Withdrawal stage. Tomorrow my daughter has a band concert. How should I treat him????
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"
