You already have the answers. If you were in a relationship with a man and had created a life, would you like every chance to have it work? Your life goals most probably are to be in a healthy committed relationship. Do you want another person to be involved with this man, in a deceptive lying way? Half truths and secrets? Selfish and shortsighted? You have your own answers. Good luck with putting them into practice.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
