Again I thank you for your support and understanding of this post...obviously most of you see where my heart and my head is at...this is a very scary time and I think we all want what is "familiar"....when you connect with someone on an emotional level that "familiar" feeling starts to take hold...
And it is painful if the journey is not done...it can result in great pain....I did experience that with my "friend"....we have corrected things and remain friends but still the pain of the whole mess is there....thus it is on my mind...and when I see somethings in postings little red flags go up....
I don't want to see anyone anymore hurt then they already have been...that was/is my motive for this post...
