I wanted to reply to you, but I'm not entirely sure I understand your question. Are you asking if some of us here have formed some kind of kindred bond with another poster from these boards, and taken it to another level? Or are you asking if some of us have dated in general? If the latter, then, yes, I have, but ONLY after I was legally separated, and not one day before that. I lived apart from my H for over a year and kept entirely to myself. I was in no shape to be dating no matter how many people kept saying I should "get out there". Blah. Even now, I'm not entirely sure I should be dating, but I haven't been seeing anyone recently so this isn't a problem currently. As for these boards, if you are asking have I or anyone gotten involved with another DB'er, I can say no to that. I only met 2 people from these boards in person over a year ago, and they actually posted in the Infidelity section...and we were just good friends only.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
