Thank you Holly! You can't imagine how much I needed to read this! My fear kicked in a little when I read this b/c I thought, well this person's H wanted her to keep in touch, whereas mine said "move on, don't contact me." But I think it's still the same b/c my H has never had to face being truly w/o me. I have to face the fear that he will forget me and realize that will be impossible. We have tons of years of wonderful memories and that is what he will use to compare his current existence when he is alone and also w/ the OW.
