Hi LL, I didnt realize you were struggling so hard with your feelings. You came by and gave me so much strength, I have cut each response I received out and put them in my wallet to read when I feel stressed.
I think from reading your post that there is a good chance that you will be one of the successful ones. The fact that he is keeping in touch with you, doesnt want to change anything is good.
My H did the same thing he just wanted to be alone, he knew any connection outside of myself was wrong and didnt make him feel very good. Your H still loves you. He has just chosen not to at this time. Dont get wrapped up in what he is doing. Dont ask questions. Whatever is going on has to run its course. You dont want him home until it does. Just keep the home fires burning, make it a warm safe place for him to come home to. Keep the doors open, he knows how good he had it. Hopefully you can be patient a wait. Remember to use DBing when relating with your H and the rest of the time have fun and look after yourself. You will feel good again. Take care Loretta
