Good venting, LL. That's what it is. We all get this way. Heck, I think I remember getting this way before the "bomb". I just didn't question the soundness of my marriage then, I just chalked it up to a down day....

Different times, different reasons. Thing is, we all have ups and downs, and the only really big difference now is that our SO's have dallied with their OP's, so we wonder if that's the problem. Me, I struggle, usually successfully these days, to chalk it up to life in general, not OP's influence.

I think it's working.

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