Well... this will take time and you both may need some distance while he's holding onto his anger. Just keep pointing out the negatives regardless of what he says and repeat your support and friendship. Do nice things without expecting anything from him. Yes, you may be the one doing all the work, but that's not a bad thing regardless of where the marriage goes. I've learned a lot in focusing on loving unconditionally. Work towards that.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
