find a woman's support group. I dont' know what would've happen to me had I not found this wonderful group, sponsored by the county (read:free). The leader was a refreshing woman and the others who came helped me soooooo much! Also, I was able to have a consult every now and then for free. I'd go 2x a month for 2hrs, and it saved my sanity. Look into your county's services or church groups.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.