thanx very much. as for getting professional help, been thinking of that already. but right now we are so hard up with our finances, it isn't possible as yet. i'm thinking after i graduate and have a job.
as for the OM, i totally pulled away from him. i've realized though too late that he's not worth it (CRIED EVERYDAY about it). my H kept on "bugging" (for lack of the right word to use) me about what i did. but i understand his pain and suffering.H told me that if ever, our M don't work out and we will get our annulment, and he would tell the children thae reason of our separation. i told him it wouldn't be good for the children to know. does he really have to tell the children?
