steph, it sounds like you are always there for w and sometimes hididng behind d to be there for w. w is a grown woman and can handle d on her own... when it is w's time with d leave them be, take that time to do things for you!!! if the time you have been spending with w has been at your request.... don't request.... don't call w unless emergency... if it can wait til a time when you are dropping off or picking up d then let it wait. live life for you and d, know that when d is with w, she is ok and you are free to go out and be the steph you were before you were superdad!! LL does that help any??
