LL, I am soo jealous, you are in a good place, you know what works and what does not. You know him better than anyone and if it feels right then go for it. My h is moving out this weekend, little by little, wants me to help, go shopping with him for some things. I am unsure if I should, as this is not how a couple who is seperating should "act".(I can't seem to let go of what people think). I want to help in any way. My friend at work hopes I don't become a doormat. H has never made me feel that way. I do everything around house because that is what I want to do, would like more help, but I don't worry about the small stuff anymore. So shall see what tomorrow brings.Get to work with mother in law at church, can't wait to see if she acts different towards me. I hope not, yet when her other son got d 2 times, of course it was the wifes fault. Bye Sue
