Off the crazy train?

[trytoohard]

Thanks for the reply CL. Last week the OW was the primary talk of our conversations. This week she has only been brought up once, by him. I don't want to tell him I feel insecure, I only want to be honest with my feelings regarding our current sitch. The old me would just squash these feelings and move on with nary a thought of mentioning it to him. The new me needs to acknowledge these feelings and not let him off the hook for the collateral damage the affair has had on our relationship. I can do this lovingly while reassuring him that I want to put things behind us as they happen, not let them build up.

We are not living together, haven't been for 17 months. We both agree we are not ready for him to move back home yet but he will be spending some nights at home when he gets back from his trip.

I am trying to stay true to myself and be honest and loving with him at the same time.

OW wants her "stuff" back. I want to suggest that we both take the "stuff" over to her house and drop it off with her husband...but I won't