If you go back thru Rachel's threads you'll understand that she's dealing with mega anxiety at times. One way she tries to find calmness is via Adrian.
Rachel has got to GET IT and grow.
It's not the sentence get control of herself and let Adrian go.
It's more like quit worrying about the man. Let him deal w his issues. It's ok to continue to love him but not the way his mom or his wife would, more like a friend who will laugh w him and not get into the serious stuff.
The control aspect of this is Rachel learning how to self-soothe. That is the key. To reach a point where she won't need the pills is a wonderful goal. One that she can attain once she stops worrying about the past.
The day Rachel takes control over her emotions will be a splendid day indeed!
