First off, NO I could not be OW. Had that chance many times, didn't go there.
Let us not confuse nerve and lack of moral awareness, with bravery. She was not brave to come here. She was completely oblivious to how her actions affect others negatively. She spent way too much time justifying it. IF she had allowed the moral qualms I can only hope she feels at some level, to be verbalized and maybe asked us REAL questions about what to do, MORALLY, not tactically, I would have felt very different. I have made bad choices in my life and when I asked for help solving them and overcoming them, thank God I found that help. But please, that is NOT what this was. Don't worry so much about calling a spade a spade as if it invites something negative back at you. "Negative crap" is one thing to avoid, but calling an act that hurts innocent children wrong, is not the wrong thing to do and is not crap, IMHO. j-
Now is the thread closed? where do we go then?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
