IF IamOW is for real then I must applaude her bravery in coming here.

The only thing I disagree with, is her saying that only two people were in the wrong.

The OW/OM who knows about the marriage is just as culpable.

3 people are in the wrong, two of them for letting their marriage get that bad.

Still if she is for real, and not seeking the drama, it was pretty brave of her.


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