I was looking for your post but found this one instead. I will keep searching for your post or you can find me on my piecing page. Once I saw OW's complaints about her "BF" not leaving his wife and children fast enough for her, and God forbid, lying to HER??????!!!!!! I HAD to say something. Ended up posting the nicest version I had. OMG I was freaked out by this OW....It really truly reminds me of clients I had, and I had to keep a straight face when they told me how fine they were about what they did, or they were mad at the victims - "idiots" who left their doors UNlocked, asking to be burglarized, rape victims who "invited" it by dressing sexy, etc. I know some of them believed it and that has always disturbed me a lot. Your response to her I'm sure fell on deaf ears. But there is still value in calling it like it is when you see it. Why pretend it's acceptable or mainstream behavior when it isn't? I wish someone had told my father "a few drinks" does not mean drink until you pass out. He might be alive today if some adult had done that. Maybe in this woman's life there is no right and wrong. Who'd know? I am sure she she repeats the cliches of today's cheaters: "kids are resilient" and "WE" ie the grown ups, "need to discover our happiness" but I think the sentences should be reversed. Kids are the ones who need to discover themselves and we adults are the ones who can handle it with a bit of resilience. With adults like OW, what does our future hold? j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
