And another thing you homewrecker: We know all about things he didn't tell you, his fairy tale fantasy, that he could be going deaf, has ED, needs work done on several places that his insurance won't pay for, you get to pay for that, I guess. But of course, all those problems disappear when he is with you, ha ha ha!! NOT!! He'll just be getting older with you watching it happen. See, our H's don't bring perfection to the table like you think. all you think they have is an unhappy M, and maybe a few brats you will have as little to do with as possible, or you may try to buy their affection for awhile, but then when you get tired of the way kids just drain you dry, and the way my H's passing gas can stop a tank, or having to pay a fortune for the different doctor bills, or pills, you will find that your knight in shining armor has only a little shine left, but a heck of a lot of tarnish. That's when you will really begin to show your true colors, and so will he, so he will move on to start lying to the next one and you will be crying and saying how could he do this to me?
Well, you reaps what you sows, as a little old lady I once knew said. So, think now and drop him, that way you don't have to any longer worry if he is lying to his wife, because you won't be in the picture to know or care, anyway.
We have had years to learn his ways and how to either overlook his faults or deal with them, you don't know the half of them , because he hides them from you, in his tarnished suit of armor.
And I am glad you started this in a way, because if you ever skulk about to see what we are saying so you can have your laugh of the day, maybe something one of us says will finally hit home with you and any other ow out there. And I kind of believe you didn't just start this and run, I think you are still reading this.