I AM the OW....He won't stop lying to his wife

[BluePoet]

you'd be surprised some of the crazy things H's have said to get OWs into bed with them (like saying they haven't has sex with their wife in years, when actually they've been going at it like rabbits for years)

Oh yeah - I'm absolutely certain my STBX didn't tell OW we were having sex almost *every single night* in the last six months especially and twice nightly during the four day weekend after he dropped the bomb and I suggested we spend the weekend together. He's admitted that...

That said - in retrospect, if he does ever get his dream of getting with her, I feel sorry for them both... He manipulates by kindness and playing the martyr.

(And if obviously not *this* OW's swain.)

BluePoet