Lily, when I read your post, I almost threw up. I can just imagine what my H's whore would say. I know she told him she "admired him" for sticking it out for our S, and that she had a date circled on a calendar which she made a copy of for him for their "special" date. Don't know the significance of that date, but I really hope the ow is long gone by then. And she is trying to make herself seem so honorable by not believing in premarital sex!! Ha Ha Ha!!!
You adulterers all seem to have some kind of "hook" to draw in our Hs. Why not let him be a real man and you leave him alone?
I didn't think after I read all these other posts that you would be back. I am sure you have crawled like the slime you are over to a forum that will validate what you believe to be a good thing, and they will tell you that all of us W's are just jealous of how young or pretty or sexy or different you are, and how we just need to face the fact that they want something new, and you provide that. Never mind the families they leave crying at home.
My H , too wants to be able to be a knight in shining armor, but I told him that was for when we were young men and women, now he was a king and should be the king of his family. I believe she feeds all this with her stupid bull, after all she is divorced, so she isn't exactly the perfect damsel in distress, but perhaps a 50 year old whore trying to land a man, any man, even a man with a family who is married. What difference does it make to her as long as she gets someone? Well, hon, I am fighting a battle I intend to win and my S and I will have him where he belongs--with us.
