I go on TOW site from time to time, just to understand the other side. My overall impression is one of seediness and selfishness.
It is interesting how some people who have been cheated on decide it's ok and natural to go out and cheat on other people or be the OP. After what has happened to me I would NEVER do that to someone else. I would run a million miles before I got involved with a married man.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei