quote] But I don't agree with the 180, the in dark, or whatever that is, it's not genuine. As a psychology major, you might agree that people are what they are, they are years of their environment and history. You can't change that, and if that's what affects their behavior, you can't change what you are. the attept to "act" different, is just that, an act.
Your really misunderstanding this concept of change. As somebody correctly stated previously, it's not a change of personality, but a change in behavior.
An alcoholic can change his/her behavior and stop drinking. A smoker can change their behavior and stop smoking. A H or W can change their behavior and stop be critical of their S. Etc, etc, etc...
Do you understand the difference? You can't change your personality and you don't want to, that's what your partner initially fell in love with. It's your behavior that drives them to leave and that MOST CERTAINLY be corrected.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
