Quoting OW: I was not trying to antagonize anyone for trying to save their marriage, I thoughtI was clear about that.


REALLY???? You're not trying to antagonize people trying to save their marriages???

Quoting OW:Does anyone remember Oprah and her The Horse is Dead...Get off. Sometimes you have to realize the horse is dead and get off it, because it's not going to take you anywhere. Not every marriage should be saved.

Then pray tell me, what are you trying to say by the above 2 sentences?

You are trying to discourage people from saving their marriages. You are using language like, "you're all beating a dead horse"....that pretty much sums it up in my book. You're being very clear.

It's like having an overweight person walk into a gym and laugh at everyone trying to get healthy. Then when the gym goers get upset in return, the overweight person plays victim when in fact they were the ones who walked into the gym and laughed at everyone in the first place. What did you expect? A big welcome hug? Your first post was pretty clear, in cap letters, "I AM the OW".