And another thing, you remind me of my sister, who told me that she was having an affair with a married man, and had the nerve to tell me that his wife was putting them through hell. And that she was trying to save their M, and that she (the wife) was pregnant (got pregnant during all this). Well, I sat my little tramp sister straight and told her that no it was she and the H who were putting the wife through hell, and that she had no right whatsoever to him. And by the way, he chose to stay and save his marriage, which upset her even more, but I say too darn bad, don't play the whore anymore!!
Also, just knowing you would go so far as to get the same book that the wife got, shows me how low some of yall (ow) will stoop. I think my H's EA ow has gotten hold of some of the books recommended here, I heard her messages to him that sounded like the dripping of honey from an adulteress' lips, so sickeningly sweet I wanted to puke, but words he apparently liked, at least till he finds out she is bitter as wormwood, and will take him down to the hell I previously mentioned. So, use your books to keep him, if you must, then feel proud of yourself when his kids have problems, and not because or his wife, because of you and him. Enjoy yourself while you are young, because one day you will be just an old whore!! L