Quote: and to be quite honest - your posts seem a bit selfish. You're wanting him for yourself, not considering his family that he's made, his wife that as far as we know has been loyal to him, regardless of his past.
Are you concerned about his kids? No. You want him to leave so he can be all yours (until someone else comes along....) - and you're not considering his kids or his family.
Think about it.
I just find it hard to believe that you actually had this done to you - and you're justifying doing it to someone else....
It has nothing to do with "wanting him for myself" again, I'm not holding a gun to his head. His wife was NOT loyal to him, she LIED about significant things that would have prevented him from marrying her in the first place and he didn't leave because his children were LITTLE when he found out. And the marriage deteriorated from there. Wayyyyyy before my time. Ever hear of people who stay until the kids get older? Happens all the time. So no, you don't know. He's a good father and puts his children first, but that doesn't mean he can't have a life without their mother. You really don't know what you're talking about.
