and to be quite honest - your posts seem a bit selfish. You're wanting him for yourself, not considering his family that he's made, his wife that as far as we know has been loyal to him, regardless of his past.
Are you concerned about his kids? No. You want him to leave so he can be all yours (until someone else comes along....) - and you're not considering his kids or his family.
Think about it.
I just find it hard to believe that you actually had this done to you - and you're justifying doing it to someone else....
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
