Utterly Alone, By the way, I just read your story, you cheated on your husband...so why are you acting so righteous? It happens, doesn't it. You called him childish for saving a picture of your OM on his phone? Not really thinking about the fact that YOU hurt him and he is being a little obsessive. Did your OM drag you kicking and screaming to bed? Isn't this the pot calling the kettle black.
What I am promoting is that he be honest with her period. Not backpedaling because she threatens him with his children. Do you think that's right? That someone can't leave because your children are being held over your head?