Quote: Yes, I am serious. No, I learned that it takes two to tango, two to ruin a relationship. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but it happens all the time., it's part of life, you're naive if you don't think so. Anyone can be a victim of cheating, my point is that it's the person in the marriage that bears the responsibility, they took the vow. And it's the spouse's responsibility as well, because people don't cheat for no reason, and people don't want out of a marriage for no reason. I already said it's obviously not the ideal situation, I don't think you wake up one day and say, I'm going to go after a married man, it's circumstance. Is that that hard for you to understand?
I don't think you should be rude -- you KNEW your posts wouldn't be welcomed. People are here trying to save their marriages......and you're promoting that this "man" continue his affair with you and be honest with his wife.
YES - he should be honest with his wife. So tell him to grow a set and lay it out - WHAT does he want? And like others have said - if he's lying to her, how do you know he's not lying to you?
And if you've learned a lesson, that it takes two people - and from your posts - the OP is not responsible at ALL for this relationship, then you have no guilt now eh? You don't see that you're not a welcome addition to their marriage? Seriously?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
