Yes, I am serious. No, I learned that it takes two to tango, two to ruin a relationship. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but it happens all the time., it's part of life, you're naive if you don't think so. Anyone can be a victim of cheating, my point is that it's the person in the marriage that bears the responsibility, they took the vow. And it's the spouse's responsibility as well, because people don't cheat for no reason, and people don't want out of a marriage for no reason. I already said it's obviously not the ideal situation, I don't think you wake up one day and say, I'm going to go after a married man, it's circumstance. Is that that hard for you to understand?