And so you know your R with your married boy friend isn't going to last. I would call it quits, pick yourself up and consider this a bad learning experience.
Good luck,
Flying High
Hey Flying High? Who are you to say what will last and what won't? My father married his OW. Happens all the time.
Is there some reason we can't have a discussion here? Do you think I'm the only OW who reads this board, maybe they'll start coming out too. No one is forcing you to read my comments and respond.