I'm not looking for support here. I was married. My husband cheated on me. I didn't blame the OWs because it was his fault, not theirs. Partially my fault too. Whether they knew, didn't know, they didn't force him to pull down his pants. And I believe you have to learn from mistakes in past relationships to make future ones better. I've also learned that opposites might attract, but you have to have commonalities in order to stay together. You can't blame a third party for your husband or wife's actions. The decision is ultimately theirs whether to cheat or not. What exactly is a troll anyway?
