I AM the OW....He won't stop lying to his wife

[*KS*Chick*]

Okay, I know this isn't going to make me popular, but it's true. I am the other woman. I came to this board because my BF who is living apart from his wife is now LYING to his wife AGAIN. And allowing her to get her hopes up about a reconciliation to get her temporarily off his back. He came out about the affair to his wife several months ago, and left...and she flipped, and I don't mean figuratively, and is acting like a lunatic in front of their kids, causing them to have problems. She cried, begged pleaded, he spent hours on the phone with her (in front of me, because he was with me at the time) trying to get her to stop, stop, stop but she is not in control, she's negative, insecure, needy, dependent, and out of control when she drinks. Go ahead and blame the OW, but what do you think drove him out to begin with, and I wasn't the first, she found out, and they did try and reconcile, and it worked for a few years. She actually has no idea there were others at that time. She demanded he stop seeing me, held the kids over his head, as well as other things, she really had him in a vice, IF YOU"RE SEEING HER I'M GOING TO DO >>>> or I'm NOT GOING TO >>>>>
So, what did he do, he lied, told her we're not seeing eachtother anymore, and she believes it. Why? Denial probably... how you can threaten someone and then they tell you what they want to hear and you believe it is beyond me, especially when she knows he's lied to her (obviously) is beyond me. So she orders the DB stuff and DVD (wish his consent of course... because now he has decided to ACT as though he's trying... to get her off his back, make it look like he tried) We started arguing, because I think this is WRONG, I think it will make her worse x2 when she finds out he's been lying. I'm not going to argue with him any more about it, because honestly, he's the liar. My kids and my friends know what's going on and she looks like the fool...I honeslty can't believe she believes him. Every once in a while she'll ask him if he's seen me or talked to me, he says no, and she believes it. I do wish he would just come out and tell her the truth, and just get it over with. I feel bad he's gonna make her go through the motions and try and get her hopes up, who knows, maybe it will work, but I doubt it.

OK so if you're NOT a troll - what do you want here? Are you DB-ing? Are you helping him keep his marriage together?

Why do you think she's negative, needy and INSECURE??????? And what are you doing to help her? You're continuing your A with her H...HELLO!!!!!!!!