First of all, I am NOT the cause of someone's pain, her husband is. I didn't marry her, he did. Sometimes friendships turn into something else you you can't help who you fall in love with. I do have respect for myself, and yes she is all of the things I said she was. Does he want to hurt her feelings? Of course not, does that mean he wants to live out the rest of his life with her? No. Not everyone who wants to end their marriage is "BAD" sometimes people have to take responsibility in their part of the demise of a relationship. I do feel bad that he's lying to her. And SHE does look like the fool because EVERYONE but her knows we are still together, she may even know, and just be in denial. As far as him lying to me...could be, guess i'll out. Once you cheat on your spouse, the purity is gone, you can never say I've been faithful. I'm not a troll, I think some aspects of this book are good, and could be used as preventative. Communication is the key. So call me what you want, it doesn't change the truth.
