ll, seems i made others angry when i shared my experience on your thread about my h's lying. if i caused you any more pain or stress i am sincerely sorry. i have learned a lesson, i will only post my experience on my own thread. the point i made after sharing was that it really doesn't matter if someone has an ea, a pa, or anything that detracts from the primary relationship of h and w. any issue that comes between a couple that creates distance is not good for the marraige and causes pain. i wish i could say something that would make this less painful for you. lisa
