Also, Lisa, when you say it is hard to believe that it can be just an ea for so long it makes me angry, my h has had this ff for 3 years, and I am now finding out that there has been nothing but a friendship to someone who has had many many problems, and my h has been her support, we as a society, myself included do not question a same sex friendship do deep, yet throw opposites together and we assume affair of some sort. It is so sad. Sue
