With all due respect, your sharing your experiences of how YOUR H was lieing to YOU about HIS PA it totally irrelavent to LL's situation. It only serves to further fray the nerves of a woman who is trying so hard to trust this man and believe that he's NOT lying to her. Then, when all her instincts (and so many of her well meaning friends, relatives, comrades on this board...) are telling her things that only go further to support her fears, we can see a perfect example, right here on this board, of Michele's warnings about well intentioned friends in the first chapter of Divorce Remedy.
LL, before you allow your fears to take over, supported by Lisa's story of her experiences, please re-read that section of DR... And remember, that no matter how similar everyone else's story is to yours, your marriage, your story is unique, it is yours.
