he spent some time with her before we were married, then stayed away from her then wanted that feeling again so started to hang out with her again, they have been "friends" for the past 2 1/2 years I did not know this until last year when he was seen by a friend of mine in a hospital elevator with her, then he told of the friendship three months later moved out and now a year later here we are again. I don't recall when she got cancer perhaps the summer before last while I was preg, I think I recall fil telling me so (she is a customer of h's and fil works for h) don't know what she has but her story is that if they don't find a cure she has 7-15 years. (yeah what a crock I spoke to a cancer nurse and she found that odd as does everyone I know who works in the med field or has a brain, that just isn't a time line they give) the r was all during the day, he'd stop by her home a few times a week, and they'd talk on the phone everyday and they went out to lunch as well, she does day care (though I assume not everyday how did she go out to lunch?) anyway isn't about her sorry ass, is about the fact that my h thinks she's something special. I'm tired and I don't want to play anymore, I've been waiting a long time for h to be my friend, he was always to busy with work or football and then got to busy with ow. I am tired and I don't want to wait any more. LL
