Quote: what I did during the sep. went dark, lived my life, went out made friends and didn't give a rat what he was doing,
I have found this is the key. In my sitch, when I just go off and do for me, she goes absolutely nutso. Wants to know where I'm going. Who was I with? When will you be home? Just can't let me go off by myself. Again, in my sitch, it was not about jealousy, or control on her part, but just that she wanted to be sure I wasn't going to have more fun than she was. So I learned there was a basis for us, she required shared fun.... It was a start. I don't know where the end will be, but it won't be the divorce she said she needed 18 months ago. I think I'm winning... You are too. Believe that.
And never forget that "LL is awesome". Babystep is such an understatement here, babe. Yes, you are winning!
