LL: I am convince that every new R tends to be more pational, more crazy, more exite than a M of 12, 13 or 14 years... because it is base on that... on sex, on pleasure, on vanal talkings.... not in frienship, knowing too much of each other, children, familly....!!... So... i remember that on a mail ow sent my h, she reminded him what a friend of my h said: That my h staying with her show a different smile, and seems to be more happy than ever...!! How damage can do a partner word...!!... how easy they say words that doesnt reflect reality... and this is because he isnt a real freidn of my husband, he only know him since 8 years... and he is only hearing my h part of the trouble in M...!!... So, yes, we cant fight against fresh body, against sexy fantasies that a teenager that our H become feel on their MLC... we only can be the same special woman, mother, friend, and company (inclusive on bed) they enjoy so much but at the same time fight against because their MLC... I am cnvince is not an specific OW... at least in my h case... is his confution, his wishes to change everything, to feel younger, to feel sexiest...!!...