Quote: I will not let the ow get to me, whatever they had they had now I will have better!! I will not talk about the details of sit with others as the more others know the more complicated it is for me to reconcile (this will be very difficult as i love to talk) I will be upbeat when h calls I will be confident around h I will continue to treat myself well (I need a haircut) I will get some rest I will stop worrying about the what if's I will accept the fact that my h loves me and wants to be with me for me I will enjoy my family with my h I will stop hiding behind anger I will let go of the things that hurt and move on as the longer I hold onto them the longer they hurt me I will wait for h to ask to spend time together I will accept that for now h doesn't want to seek counseling I will wait for h to initiate or talks I will think about how happy I can be with h when I am feeling down about the sit I will stop asking h when he will be moving home I will try to take it one day at a time and enjoy what i have now
just thought I'd remind myself of the goals I set when h decided he wanted to try!! it is obvious I am having a hard time with them LL
