LL: When my h asked for reconciliation i always told him i want him back because me, not becuse the child or because economics issue or any other cause...!!... In that time he always told me he wants to be at home bacsue whats familly menas, children, home, and me...!!... that the economics issue doesnt have to means nothing because he knows he can afford this situation... but you know what...?... that feelings about the really resons he is at home is always in my mind...!... but t the same times i know this is all part of this turmoil and crisis they are living... is not because me... i think he will be glad to be alne, getting fum, like a teenager, but at the same time his sane part of the mind told him he is a father, a spouse, and an adult who hasnt the age for doing what teenager use to do... Maybe OW fill his requirements right now, but after time pass, ow will turn in another responsability, in another pint of reality... and will beguin to have problems with ow... Thats all the problem is about... their crisis... not us... Of course they are at home because they feel confortable with us... i know my h feels love aboput me... but in his crisis i am the terrenal part... the one who remind him he is 41 years... he is a father... he is a spouse who have to act caring and attending the other one... he have resposabilities... thats why they act so crazy about us... so hurting some times...!!
