h has let her know that he is trying to put m back together and that he is home (funny cause he isn't yet) she knows this yet is still calling him, how often I don't fully know but I have seen a few calls from her on his cell phone. eventually (I hope) theese calls will cease, but honestly she does not seem like the type of woman who will stop unless she is told straight out. and right now h still feels bad for her, he doesn't yet see that SHE is also responsible she is no victim. he also knows that as long as there is contact between them I will not be able to trust him. they may have just been friends, but that friendship went too far when they colaborated to lie to me, and then started planning to be together because they were in love
