LL: Since my h came back home, i never demanded him to call her in front of me or nothing like that, because he was th one who did that wuthout me asking... i remembered a day when she called to his cell phone (h wasnt at home yest , but we were dating and getting out a lot... We were together eating at a restaurant.. so he answered and said: Please, dont call me more... i am with my w dining, and i dont want anything more with you... After that, she insist going to his gym, and he told me about this... i never pointed him what he need to do... but i always expressed my angry because she still looking for him... Now, after 10 months of recnciliation, i dont know if she continue calling him... i dont have access to his cell bill... she never call to his cell phone, at least in a moment i can know it... So, i dont have signs to demand him cuting her away... But yes, if i have really signs about it, i will ask stop that directly because i wont acept him maintining a touch with someone who wish to destroy my marriage some months ago and maybe right now...!!... but i will try to look for that not involucrating me... letting him to do what he have to do...