ok a question to you all, last november when h was seen w ow and then disclosed the friendship, I asked that it end. he claimed to end it. when i asked after a while when he had last spoken to her, he said "she called for firewood" (she is a customer) when I called her and talked to her, she also said the last time she talked to him was for firewood. they had still been talking everyday at the time, seeing eachother a few times a week and my h supposedly told her to tell me that lie.
h has confessed that lie saying it was his idea. h has admitted to lot's of things, (still does not admit to any pa other than hugging her)
so do I believe him this time???
she is still calling him at least every other week that I have seen on his cell or that he admitted to me. I asked him the other morning to call her with me there and tell her not to call anymore that there is no r between them, that how he's doing is not a concern of hers and there is no need for her to call to wish him a happy b-day. she knows that he is home (or at least trying to come home) but I don't think that matters to her,(obviously, she is still calling)
so what to do, h wouldn't call then as it was early the kids were up and I was angry. also suggested I leave the kids with my mother and meet him at ow's house in person to tell her.
I have not said anything since about it, but would feel more comfortable if something like it would happen.
