Is there any possibility that your H wears an MLC teeshirt?

The reason I ask is because, if he is, then fer sure keep your mouth duct-taped about your pain.

An MLCer is all about his own pain. If you pressure him re the ow or your wants or your pains then it will make him want to bolt.

I am so glad that he has said that he wants to work on the R. Follow his lead.

I have more to post but am waiting to find out if you are a MLC spousie.

Be welcome and may you find peace to calm your soul.