Being on these boards have been an eye-opener, to say the least. However, I'm a private person and usually do not promote my life in public.
It seems that I was violated here, on these boards, when I specifically requested that a certain piece of information was to be on the QT (post on 1/10/07 - 9:24pm).
I feel that I have tried to help as many people as I could in their plights. Sometimes, it was necessary to exhibit tough love - other times, soothing hugs and understanding.
With my own R starting over as friends, seems to be what is needed to sustain the beginning of a new life with my XH. It is therefore, critical that I focus on that. My other concern, my sister, who is 10 years older, has lung cancer from an ovarian tumor. She's been on chemo for two years and hasn't had hair since. With this plate being full, the need is to concentrate on those aspects that require more attention.
My private life is that - private. I wish you all well in your recovery for your marriages - keep on DB'ing and keep respecting your spouses, no matter what they do.
From time to time, I may come back and see how you all are doing - but, for now, I need to stop being here, seeing my private statements displayed on the internet.
Thank you all for listening, giving advice, and caring... My thoughts and prayers are with you.
