Yes, I agree with you...plus the fact that we are equal in cheating - his was first and longer - commands an equal playing field. I do know more about his A, than he of mine, so I'm not that interested in hearing anymore about his OW - yet, I know he suspects the OM as being my former boss. Such as, there is no need to go down that path.
Right now, we are learning to be friends. There's no ILY's or talk of selling houses, none of that...which I find a little refreshing.
