Yep...that's my approach for now...low key, cautious and friendship for now...it seems to work. We both aren't the type to have wild fights or confrontations...he is being very nice now...so I'm not rocking the boat.
I know these things take time and I read all the posts in piecing...waiting for that rollercoaster, but, we both did cheat on each other, he won't talk about it, but, he knows that I know...so, I'm not ready to move over there yet. We both live apart, he has our house and I have mine, so it's going to have to do for now.