The long journey I didn't sign up for.............

[nodivorceplease]

Thanks Was2sad, I have to keep reminding myself to keep the focus on ME and not him. It's hard to do. I do feel like he's cake eating a bit and I need to set some limits on that. I feel like pulling back may help me with the detaching too. It's so hard to have a wonderful day with him and then remember that he doesn't want me anymore. So my goal is to go "dim" for a month and then see how I feel about things. I wish I could go dark and not see him at all but that would be impossible in my sitch.

Shelly